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Everyone assumes that being in love is that top-of-the world feeling that never fades. What so many don't realize that, while it's a great, wonderful feeling - a chemistry that works like magic just for the two of you, a special aura that cocoons you from the rest of the world, it has it setbacks too.

When you love someone so much, it can really hurts when things aren't going right between the two of you. The quarrels, when they come, are terrible. You are so naked and vulnerable to be hurt. They know exactly how to hurt you. The agony of waiting for the mails that doesn't arrive, the words, which are no longer said, the time and the hug that isn't there for you anymore. And when they smile in someone else's direction and not yours, your insides hurt like hell.

Storm is a mild expression when lovers quarrel. Jealousy, when it raises its ugly head, is uglier than you thought. Hurled accusations and more hit the walls when you feel insecure. Threatened by the possible loss of that love you've been able to count on for so long. The time for making up is also a time when a small part of you dies within. Your dignity and your self-esteem suffer a severe blow in that lovers' quarrel.

Yet you want no one else. It's their arms that you still want around you. It's their murmured words of love you long to hear. It's finally them too, you want to spent the rest of your years with.